Love, Loss & Caregiving

When Mark Steven Porro picked up the phone one day in Los Angeles, he didn’t know it would change everything. His 89-year-old mother was on her deathbed. Or so they thought. What followed wasn’t just a surprise recovery. It was a complete role reversal.

Mark left behind his fast-paced creative life and moved home to New Jersey, stepping into a role he never rehearsed: full-time caregiver. In this deeply honest and often funny conversation, Mark shares what it really felt like to become the parent to the person who raised him.

We talk about the messy, tender, ridiculous moments that shaped his award-winning memoir “A Cup of Tea on the Commode” and the unexpected legacy caregiving left behind. From commode tea rituals to trust, guilt, laughter, and letting go, this episode is for anyone walking with aging parents, wrestling with identity shifts, or learning how to show up, even when the script makes no sense.

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Published by Mark Steven Porro

The parent/child role reversal might not have been unique to me, but how I dealt with it was. "A Cup of Tea on the Commode" chronicles my multi-tasking adventures, filling my mother’s last years with love, laughter, and joy. Though not always successful, I came pretty damn close.

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